on sibling friendship

I couldn't resist snapping a picture of my two matching boys last night. They might be five years apart in age, but they are good friends already. I'm so glad. This is what I have decided lately: more than wanting my children to need me, I want them to need each other.

From time to time, Mike and I leave them, to go running, or out on a date, or even just to the grocery store. When we do this, I hope we are teaching them two important things: that our relationship as husband and wife comes first, and that they can rely on each other.

Maybe we are just lucky that they all get along so well so much of the time. But we make a conscious effort have lots of time with just our little family, too. We play with each other more than with other friends, they share teeny rooms, etc. I think if we can help them solidify those sibling friendships now, then we will be giving them such a wonderful gift. I know I treasure the relationships I have with my own siblings. I want my children to have that, too.

p.s. Happy Sibling Day! Who knew that was even a thing.