barefoot in the kitchen

I never thought I was a car person.

2012-02-16T06:20:00.000-07:00

But then the other day I found myself taking the long way to the grocery store just so I could drive my Wagoneer a little bit more. (The grocery store is only a quarter of a mile from my house, so I had to be creative.) The thrill hasn't worn off yet. I know it is just a car, but it really does make me happy every time I see it. And is it crazy that it motivates me to get dressed in the morning? This car just deserves better than sloppy pajamas or mom sweats.

I'd love to hear what your dream car is. Are you lucky enough to drive it?

We heart pizza.

2012-02-15T05:50:00.000-07:00

This pizza was as festive as things got around here yesterday. But don't worry, plenty of candy was still consumed, despite our lack of valentine crafts and decor. I think Elliot had a sucker in his hand just about all day long.

Homemade pizza is a standard at our house. My kids love it, and it is so easy to put together. Once I gave up pretending it was as good as our local pizza parlor, and realized that it is almost like a different food altogether, even I started enjoying it.

I thought I'd share my favorite dough recipe. It makes two 12-inch pizzas.

Into your bread machine, place the following ingredients:

1 1/3 cups water
1/4 cup olive oil
3 1/2 cups, or 16.6 oz flour (All-purpose tastes best, I'll be honest. But I usually use at least 1 cup of whole wheat flour to make it "healthy".)
1 tablespoon sugar
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
2 teaspoons SAF yeast, or 2 1/2 teaspoons bread machine yeast

Use the dough cycle. My machine takes about 2 hours, so I try to start the dough by early afternoon. Once the cycle is complete, knead the dough a few times on a lightly floured surface. Then divide in half, shape into balls, brush with olive oil, and cover loosely with plastic wrap. Let it rest on your counter while you heat up the oven (or for about 30 minutes). You can also put the dough in the fridge at this point to use later in the day or even the next day, just let it rest again for about 30 minutes before shaping and cooking.

I bake our pizzas on one of those woven metal pizza pan-things (kind of like this) on a pizza stone on the lowest rack, and I set my oven as high as it will go, 525 degrees. (During the summer, I put the pizza stone in the grill outside so I don't heat up the house.) After letting the dough rest, shape the first pizza, add toppings (hint: go easy on the sauce), and bake for 10 minutes. While the first pizza is baking, I shape and top the second.

Sometimes, if we are feeling particularly fancy, Mike will make garlic butter for dipping. And we might even put more than just cheese on top. :)

This still happens almost everyday.

2012-02-13T08:34:00.000-07:00

And it is my most favorite thing.

sending you sunshine

2012-02-10T09:42:00.001-07:00

I hope your weekend is warm and bright!

quiet days

2012-02-08T12:04:00.000-07:00

We haven't been up to a whole lot lately, which is just the way I like it. Here are a few instagram shots to illustrate how very boring we are. :)

Elliot got a new car seat, much to his dismay. He had figured out how to unbuckle his old one, and now he is kind of bummed that he's stuck. Mike was working last Saturday, so the kids and I headed to the library. It is one of our favorite places.

The weather has been so pleasant, that we've been making twice daily trips to the park. We have to get all of our sliding and swinging in while we can.

I get to have handsome Oliver in my primary class this year. He is so easy and good. And once all of the kids are at school, I am left with this little guy. We have lots of fun folding laundry or cleaning the house or going to the grocery store together.

Does this look like your life, too?

photos

2012-02-03T05:54:00.000-07:00

I am finally getting around to printing photos from our first ever official family photo session last December. Every time I flip through the images, I find more favorites. This time it was this set of our Elliot. Ashley did such a great job capturing his little face. Oh, if you haven't had your photos taken by someone, don't delay! I am so glad that I will always have these images to remind me of Elliot's little nervous finger sucking habit.

book report

2012-02-02T13:44:00.000-07:00

It's been a long time since I've done one of these, but I've read a few great books lately that I wanted to share.

Pictured:

Ahab's Wife is perhaps one of my favorite books. I recently read it for the second time, and loved it even more than I remembered. It is the fictional account of Una, a woman who marries the legendary Captain Ahab. It is so beautifully written. I don't typically write in my books, but this is the kind of book that made me want to highlight passages to re-visit later.

A Fierce Radiance was my least favorite of this bunch, but it is a very interesting story. It follows the development of penicillin during the second World War. I found the ending unsatisfactory and the bedroom scenes unnecessary, but the reality of a world without penicillin was fascinating.

Gone With the Wind is a classic, and rightly so. Oh, it was good. I hated Scarlet and loved Rhett, and I still hold out hope that they ended up happy and together.

The Book Thief has been on my to-read list for a long time. I shouldn't have waited so long to read it. It was moving and heartbreaking and beautiful all at the same time. It takes place in Germany, during World War II, and is narrated by Death. But don't let that deter you. It is wonderful.

I am usually not one for non-fiction, but Bill Bryson's At Home is fantastic. I flew through it. It is so full of interesting information, and so entertaining. Bill Bryson is a master.

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My Cousin Rachel was a fun beach read while we were in Mexico last month. I didn't enjoy it quite as well as Rebecca, but it was still very entertaining. Daphne du Maurier is good at what she does, which is dark, mysterious fiction.

What is the What took me forever to finish. That is not to say that it wasn't interesting and well-written and that I didn't enjoy it. Because it was and I did, it is just a hard subject. The fact that it is based on truth, makes it even more difficult. It follows the story of a Sudan refugee, his tragic flight to Ethiopia, and his eventual settling in America. A tough read, but very well-done.

The Blue Star is the sequel to Jim the Boy, which I have never read but would like to. The Blue Star is sweet and tender and kind of heart breaking. It has sort of the same feel as The Whistling Season, which I also loved.

I typically don't like books that take place in modern times, but I enjoyed The Hand that First Held Mine. Maybe the fact that it bounces back and forth between a modern day story and one fifty years in the past kept my interest. There were moments in this book that felt so real for me, especially as it tells of Elina and her difficulties as a first time mother.

There you have it. Have you read any of these? If so, what did you think? What's the best book you've read lately?

spring

2012-01-31T11:54:00.001-07:00

It feels like spring around here. My favorite tree, the ornamental pear, is in full white bloom. And our purple flowering vine has started taking over the front of the house. Our windows are open and the days are warm and bright. Come visit.

five happy things

2012-01-30T16:00:00.002-07:00

early morning exercise

lunch and books with Stella

a 2 hour nap!

a successful first cooking lesson with Mabel and Oliver

sunny and 70 degrees

What is happy at your house today?

in the mood for cake

2012-01-26T18:18:00.001-07:00

The whole time I was in Cancun, I was desperate for a good chocolate cake. I don't know why. I never did end up finding one. This morning I couldn't take it for one more minute. So I baked this cake and ate it for lunch.

The recipe makes quite a lot of batter. I had enough for two nine inch rounds, plus more in a loaf pan. The cake is fudgey and moist and delicious, but I'm still not sure if I like the frosting. The browned butter flavor is very strong. I think next time I might try it with a plain buttercream.

If someone offers you a trip to Cancun, take it.

2012-01-25T18:12:00.000-07:00

Mike had a conference to attend there last week, so we pretended it was our anniversary and had a wonderful time.

It was beautiful. White sandy beaches, bright green water, deep blue sky. Oh, it was relaxing.

When I go to the beach, my goal is zero color change. So while Mike was in meetings, I found a shady spot and I sat there all day. And looked at the ocean, or read my book, or closed my eyes and listened to the waves pound the sand. It was the most relaxed I've been in years.

Mike ended up with some free time, so one afternoon we took a little speed boat through the jungle to snorkel. Well, Mike snorkeled. I bobbed in the water and tried not to think about the fish swimming under my toes.

Once his conference was done, we rented a car and drove to the ruins at Tulum. It was beautiful and peaceful and so quiet. I loved it there.

On Sunday, we found the local congregation of our church. Church while on a tropical vacation means no tie or jacket for Mike. I've had lots of opportunities in my life to travel all over the world and attend church in many different places, and let me tell you something. The Church really is the same everywhere, even in downtown Cancun. I love that.

The trip ended with a 24 hour layover in Dallas so we could see Leslie and Neal. I had never even been to their house! Can you believe it? Her house is gorgeous (of course), and we had such a fun time together, that now I wish we lived next to each other even more (if that's possible).

As soon as we got home, Elliot fell asleep on my chest and we were right back where we started. It was an amazing trip, but it sure was nice to be home.

Special thanks to my mom, without whom, our getaway would not have been possible.

I'm going to miss this.

2012-01-15T11:35:00.001-07:00

Last week, Elliot wouldn't let me put him down in his crib once. So we spent lots of time together on his glider. It's almost as if he knew I was going to be leaving him for a week, and he needed to get in some extra snuggles. I am so happy to be going away with Mike. I know it will be good for us. Going away together is a luxury we haven't been able to afford for a long time. Plus, my mom will be here while we are gone, and I can't think of a more capable woman. So I won't need to worry about the kids one bit. But that doesn't mean that I won't miss them like crazy the second I step onto that plane.

Have you ever left your children to take a vacation with your husband? It is hard to do, but in my experience, it is so so worth it.

Expect a full report when I get home!

homemade heaven

2012-01-12T07:40:00.000-07:00

Have you ever made homemade brownies? I hadn't until a few weeks ago. And now I don't think I can ever go back to a mix again. Oh man, they are good. Yesterday, I made a quick half batch to welcome the big kids home from school and the little ones up from naps. Find the recipe here. You won't be sorry.

ballet, round two

2012-01-11T19:36:00.000-07:00

Last year, Stella took a one-month ballet class through our city at the local rec center. It was fun, but too short and a little too unorganized. This year, I signed her up for a more official class, and today was her first day. It was so exciting. If you have ever seen Stella run, then you know that she is destined to be a ballerina. She flits about from one spot to the next, pausing to dramatically fling her hair back from her face every once in a while. When her class was over, she practically floated to the car.

winter white

2012-01-10T09:45:00.000-07:00

Mabel sang with a small children's choir on Christmas Sunday, so I thought a new dress was in order. Let me tell you something, every little girl needs a pretty white dress. They work for every occasion and every season. This time I used Simplicity 2460, but altered the sleeves. I used a cream handkerchief linen and lined the inside with remnants from a wedding dress alteration I did a couple of years ago. I love the way it feels, and I think Mabel does, too.

another instagram dump

2012-01-09T08:56:00.001-07:00

We are settling into the new year around here, hoping that this week is better than last (there was too much throw up and not enough sleep), and still figuring out what is essential and what is necessary. I feel so much better about my life when I am focusing on the right things, but I have a feeling that this will be a life-long process. That's ok.

A few highlights from the last little bit:

Stella found glow-in-the-dark stars in her stocking this Christmas. She knew exactly where she wanted each one placed. Mike was a good sport about it. :: And it seems that we have been spending all of our afternoons outside playing in the sun. Can you blame us?

On New Year's Eve I was Julie, from Saturday's Warrior. This required some frizzy curls. These curlers sure did the trick. You can see a full recap of the night here and here. :: A curling iron was responsible for my best hair day ever. I just had to document the brilliance of that wave for my posterity. :)

And this suede skirt and I have seen some good times together, starting with a trip to the temple on the morning of my wedding. Yesterday wasn't so bad, either. :: We have the late slot at church this year. While that's not my favorite, it sure comes in handy when you realize that your Oliver needs a haircut.

How is your new year feeling so far?

an afternoon ride

2012-01-05T19:27:00.000-07:00

Mabel and Oliver convinced me to ride our bikes to the brand new Dunkin' Donuts down the street this afternoon. I said ok. To be honest, it didn't really take much convincing.

It was a beautiful day for a ride. Seriously, if you have ever wanted to visit Arizona, this week is the time to do it. Get over here!

winter days

2012-01-04T19:33:00.000-07:00

We've been enjoying near perfect weather in these parts lately. I really love Arizona in the wintertime. The wisteria bush that shades the front bedrooms of our house for most of the year finally lost the last of its leaves this week. Now those rooms are bathed in a crisp winter light. These are the kinds of things that I love about our house.

I keep thinking that one of these days I'll start using our real camera again. I might someday regret this era of iphone photos, but I can't seem to do it just yet. I hope you don't mind.

What do your winter days look like?

a new year, a new idea

2012-01-03T10:44:00.000-07:00

I've never been very fond of the idea that life is like a juggling act. If you use that analogy, then small things like housework seem just as important as big things like children, and something is bound to get dropped.

I have a new idea. It comes from Julie B. Beck, our church's General Relief Society President, through my friend, Laura, and her Relief Society lesson last Sunday. It is this: instead of seeking the impossible balance of trying to do it all at once, I am going to focus on one thing at a time, using the Spirit to help me choose where to place my focus from one moment to the next.

To help with prioritizing, Sister Beck divided our tasks as women into three categories: essential (like reading scriptures and praying), necessary (like making dinner and cleaning house), and nice to do (like sewing and blogging). I don't want the nice to do things to take up all of my essential time. If I choose my focus wisely, then I will accomplish more of the essential and necessary things, and the nice to do things will fill in the cracks of my day, making my life more joyful.

So this new year, in lieu of making the usual resolutions, I will accept the fact that I can't do it all (I never believed I could, anyway), and instead I will narrow my focus.

It feels fantastic already.

scenes from Sundance

2012-01-02T06:56:00.002-07:00

We surprised our kids with a trip to Sundance after Christmas. They were in heaven. We had such a good time, despite the lack of snow. But we weren't there for the skiing, anyway. We go for the cousin/triangle room/Gramma and Pa-ing. And as usual, those did not disappoint.

I hope you all had a safe and happy holiday!

a merry one

2011-12-26T05:19:00.000-07:00

The highlights: hearing Stella say that every gift was just exactly what she's always wanted, seeing Mabel and Oliver completely pleased and content with everything they received, even the boring things like socks, and listening to Mike, Mabel, and Oliver sing in the choir at our church services. They did such a nice job. It was a long, perfect day, and I was so grateful to get back into my cozy Christmas pajamas at the end of it.

I have much to be thankful for this holiday season, but I am most especially grateful for the birth of our Savior, for His life, and for the knowledge that He lives! He lives and He loves each one of us, of this I am sure.

Merry Christmas, friends!

all is calm, all is bright

2011-12-23T03:46:00.000-07:00

It's Christmastime.

2011-12-19T14:35:00.001-07:00

Signs that Christmas is almost here:

The leaves have fallen.
The daffodils have bloomed.
There is freshly squeezed orange juice for breakfast.
The nativity advent is getting crowded.
I've stopped checking to see if the tree needs more water.
We are eating too much junk.
The presents are piling up and showing signs of lots of little hands shaking and sorting.
And, just like every year, we are frantically finishing up our Christmas cards.

What's happening at your house this week?

lately

2011-12-15T13:39:00.002-07:00

It has been stormy, which it never really is here, so Elliot and I made the most of it one afternoon with sips of hot chocolate and a cozy viewing of Roman Holiday.

Sometimes Elliot has a hard time waiting until after we pick up Stella from preschool to have a morning nap. That makes us a little bit clingy and whiney. Mabel was chosen to be in the school spelling bee and did a great job! Mike and I have to speak in church on Sunday and I am very very nervous. But I keep telling myself that if Mabel can get up in front of the school for the bee, then I can get up in front of our congregation and read my little talk.

This morning found us at Mike's office, which has a ginormous white board. So much fun. And I've been baking all week, it seems. We finally delivered goodie plates to our neighbors last night. These mini chocolate peppermint cake bites made it on the list this year. It's hard to tell, but they were so pretty and sparkly. (I also included caramel layer cocoa squares, pumpkin gingerbread bars, and molasses cookies.)

What is your favorite thing to give your neighbors at Christmas?

dear flannel shirt, where have you been all my life?

2011-12-14T11:05:00.001-07:00

I picked up this shirt yesterday at Old Navy (my yellow one isn't available online, for some reason). As soon as I touched it, I knew I had to bring it home. I mean, have you ever worn a flannel shirt? Coziest thing ever. And just right for an Arizona winter. Also, I drive a Grand Wagoneer. I kind of feel like flannel shirts should be a requirement for ownership.

gingerbread men

2011-12-12T04:00:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite things to do at Christmastime is bake gingerbread men. It seems like I am always trying out a new recipe. My ideal gingerbread men are soft, but sort of crunchy on the outside, spicy, and maybe even a little salty. Last year I made these. They were good, but a bit too crispy for me (more like a gingersnap). This year I made these:

Gingerbread Men
adapted from allrecipes

1 cup butter
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup brown sugar
1 cup molasses
2 egg yolks
4 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 1/2 teaspoons cinnamon
2 teaspoons cloves
2 1/2 teaspoons ginger
1 1/2 teaspoons nutmeg

Cream together butter and sugars until smooth. Stir in molasses and yolks. Combine the dry ingredients and blend into the molasses mixture until smooth. Chill for at least one hour.

Preheat the oven to 350. Roll dough to 1/4 inch thickness, then cut into shapes. Bake for 8 to 10 minutes.

They were delightful. In fact, this might be my new go-to recipe. I usually roll my cookies between two sheets of wax or parchment paper, but I think these could have benefited from a little extra flour (the dough was pretty sticky, even when chilled). So next time I think I'll just roll them on a lightly floured surface. I baked mine for 9 minutes, but you need to watch them carefully. You almost want them a tiny bit undercooked, otherwise they will be too crispy. As soon as mine were cool, I put them in an airtight container to keep them soft, and so far, so good. Spread liberally with cream cheese frosting and chocolate chips and you will be in Christmas heaven.

It looks like all my dreams.

2011-12-08T14:35:00.001-07:00

"My house is me and I am it. My house is where I like to be and it looks like all my dreams."

Have you ever read The Big Orange Splot? It is one of my favorite children's books. My favorite quote from the book exactly describes my feelings about our house. We first saw it on Christmas day, six years ago. And despite its 1978 trappings, we were sold. I loved it immediately, concrete walls, windowless family room, popcorn ceilings, shag carpeting, and all. We have lived here the longest of any other place, and we hope to stay here forever.

But I was kind of antsy for a change. So Mike and I threw caution to the wind and changed the direction of the couch in our basement family room! We are wild, I tell you. :) Then, as if that wasn't enough, I switched out the hooks in our office and moved my vintage sewing table into Elliot's room. I am pleasantly surprised every time I walk into these rooms now.

What I'm trying to say is, you don't always need to spend money to get a new look. I'm sure you know this, but it is a lesson I seem to learn over and over again.

p.s. I really really love these vintage hooks we inherited from Mike's parents. Aren't they pretty?

a peek and some serious advice

2011-12-06T09:40:00.001-07:00

Don't wait ten years to get family pictures taken like we did! I mean it. It's a really dumb idea. I'm so glad we finally had some pictures taken last week. Oh, I love them. While I decide which one will make it to the Christmas card, have a little peek at some of my favorites.

Thank you a million times Sunshine & Shade Photography!

a few anouncements

2011-12-02T09:04:00.001-07:00

For locals: Would you like to do some holiday shopping for a good cause? There is a boutique sale tomorrow, 7am to 2pm, 1719 E. McClellan, Mesa, AZ 85203. The sale benefits the family of Leah Bowles Lowe, who passed away recently after a two year battle with cancer, leaving her husband of 16 years, and four young children. Sounds like a great cause and a fun event. Here's a link for more info.

For everyone: Remember when I told you about Singers Company? Well, I have great news! Singers Company is now opening groups all over the country, including a few here in the Mesa/Gilbert area. Hooray! There might even be one in your neck of the woods! Go here to enroll your girls and here if you're interested in becoming a director of your very own group.

Have a great weekend! I think we'll spend some time sitting in front of our pretty tree (that's where I found Stella last night, singing) and taking it easy. What do you have planned?

decking my halls

2011-12-01T15:10:00.001-07:00

I've been a bit under the weather this week (I think I might have the flu, except that I'm not throwing up?). I'm trying to make the best of it by laying on the couch and watching all of my favorite holiday movies. So far I've seen Dan in Real Life (technically not a holiday movie, but I love it just the same), the Family Stone, Little Women, and Pride and Prejudice (Again, not holiday themed, but like I'm going to be sick for a week and not watch P & P! I'm so sure). Am I missing anything?

This morning I decided that I wasn't going to let whatever it is I have get me down anymore, so I brought all of our Christmas decorations up from the basement. And very s l o w l y started putting them out. I still have a ways to go, but it's looking quite festive at our house now. Mike and the kids might even get a tree tonight!

Is the tree up at your house?

family photos and good samaritans

2011-11-30T19:09:00.000-07:00

Today I am thankful that after almost 11 years of marriage and 4 children, we finally got some family pictures taken. The fact that we haven't done it until now is pretty ridiculous. We had a lot of fun, and I can't wait to see if our photographer got some good shots (we are kind of notorious for being unphotogenic people).

After our pictures were taken, our car wouldn't start. But I am thankful for all of the nice people who stopped to help us, including a neighbor who was passing by and gave me and the kids a ride home. People are good, I tell you, and because of their kindness we were on our way in no time.

I'm a little bit sad to see my month of Thanksgiving posts come to an end. They have been so much fun, and such a great exercise in focusing on the good things in my life. This is what I have learned: money might be tight, and things might not always go like I've planned, but I have so so much to be thankful for.

And now I think I am officially ready for Christmas. Yay.

our town

2011-11-29T06:00:00.000-07:00

Elliot and I went antiquing yesterday. Should I have been doing laundry, or sewing dresses, or getting over my cold in bed instead? Probably. But the Antique Plaza was calling my name. I didn't find what I was looking for, but we had a good time anyway. Which brings me to my gratitude post for the day. I am thankful for our town, for the small bit of history here, for the good and diverse people, and that even though I didn't grow up here, it feels like home.

health

2011-11-28T06:30:00.000-07:00

There's nothing like getting sick to make you appreciate your health. My low-grade cold turned nasty yesterday and I spent most of the day in bed (p.s. I am thankful for my bed). I am very thankful for a strong, healthy body that usually does everything I need it to.

home again

2011-11-27T05:15:00.000-07:00

We had such a fun weekend in California, but I am very thankful to be home. I'm thankful that our drive went quickly yesterday, and that we didn't run out of gas in the middle of the desert, because we kind of almost did. I am thankful that the ocean isn't more than half a day away, and I'm thankful that on day 27 of my month of Thanksgiving I can still find lots of things to be thankful for.

I hope you had a wonderful weekend!

grandparents, the ocean, and a veggie burger

2011-11-26T06:00:00.000-07:00

This morning we went to the beach to look at the ocean and feel the cool breeze on our faces (also so my brothers could surf). Then we spent the afternoon at my grandparents' house looking through old family photos and drinking lemonade. Then burgers and shakes at Ruby's! This might have been my most perfect day. I am thankful for ocean air and the feeling I get when I walk into my Grammy's house. I'm thankful for banana cream dream shakes and veggie burgers. Mostly though, I'm thankful for a day spent with my favorite people.

food and family

2011-11-25T07:44:00.000-07:00

We had some serious turkey preparation discussions around here yesterday. It was pretty funny. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. I love spending time with family and eating yummy food, and not feeling pressure to do anything but count my blessings and eat more pie. Our Thanksgiving was wonderful. I hope yours was, too! Today I am thankful that my brother Matthew, and his wife, Katie, opened their beautiful home to us this weekend. I don't think my kids ever want to leave.

safe travels

2011-11-24T05:35:00.000-07:00

We arrived at my brother's house safely last night and my kids are in heaven. I am thankful for a safe arrival (and a pretty view of the distant ocean!) and for cousins who are so much more than best friends.

I hope you have a very happy Thanksgiving!

laundry

2011-11-23T05:33:00.000-07:00

I did a lot of laundry yesterday. I think I washed Elliot's entire wardrobe. But you know what? It was easy. All I had to do was move one load from the washer to the drier and over again a few times. I am so thankful that I didn't have to go to a laundromat, or beat the clothes on a rock in a river, or stir them in a big pot of boiling water and wring them out by hand. I have it easy, and I am just so grateful.

beauty

2011-11-22T04:43:00.000-07:00

Early yesterday morning, I woke up to a whopper of a storm. When the sun came out, the world was scrubbed clean and sparkly. I never thought the desert was beautiful, but these past six years here have taught me that beauty is everywhere. I am so thankful for it.

teeny babies

2011-11-21T05:00:00.000-07:00

Mike's sisters both gave birth to a baby girl last month. They are so sweet. Last night I got to snuggle baby Mary for a bit. I am awfully thankful for new babies to hold. Each one is such a little miracle.

the weekend

2011-11-20T09:26:00.001-07:00

You know you're having a good weekend when you find yourself out to breakfast on Saturday morning. Mike and I had so much fun at the Giant Hamburger on our date Friday night, that we went back the next morning with our boys. I'm so thankful for the weekend. We get to spend lots of time together, and no one has to go to school or work. Oh, I love it! Did you do anything fun?

freshly lightenend locks

2011-11-19T05:33:00.000-07:00

I got my hair done yesterday. It was so nice to wake up this morning with blond roots! As shallow as this may sound, I am thankful for whoever discovered partial weaves, and for a talented hairdresser who makes my hair the color it was meant to be.

I hope you are having a nice weekend!

date night

2011-11-18T21:33:00.001-07:00

When Mike asked me to marry him, I felt like I had won some sort of humongous grand prize. I still feel that way. He is the best guy I know, and I am so thankful that he's mine. I'm thankful for date nights, too. Tonight we ate burgers and fries and then headed to the temple. It was a much needed break for both of us, and it just felt really great to be together.

little things

2011-11-17T08:48:00.001-07:00

Today I am grateful for good mascara days and jeans that fit. I am thankful that Stella had a fun birthday (see here) and for leftover cake. I am thankful that the sun is shining and that Mike is home. I am thankful for texting conversations with my sisters and smiling, happy babies. And I am very thankful that I sold something on Craigslist this morning, because sometimes you list things and they never ever sell.

Sometimes it feels really good to be thankful for all of the little things.

Stella

2011-11-16T05:18:00.000-07:00

Oh my Stella! She turns four years old today. I am so thankful for her happy, chatty, stubborn little self. Our family would not be the same without her. I asked her if she wanted her three best cousins over for a party and she said she wanted everyone over instead. So, we are having all of her cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents who live in town over for cake tonight. It should be a good time.

winter grass

2011-11-15T06:00:00.000-07:00

Every time I drive up to my house these days, I smile. Our winter grass is in full effect and it is beautiful. Mike's hard work has totally paid off. It is thick and lush and so green. I love our winter rye! I know it sounds silly, but I am thankful for it. When I feel it's soft coolness between my toes, I forget for a minute that I live in the middle of the desert.

sunday dinners

2011-11-14T09:35:00.000-07:00

My kids live for Sunday nights spent at Mike's parents' house. I'm pretty sure it's the highlight of their week. I am thankful that we live close and are able to see them often. I'm thankful that they are willing to feed us each week, and let us make a big mess in their playroom. I'm thankful for good food and good company. Mostly I'm just so grateful to be part of their family.

My contribution to last night's dinner were these brownies. Oh dear. I don't think I'll ever use a brownie mix again.

original art

2011-11-13T06:00:00.000-07:00

I found this picture taped to my bedroom wall, up "high" so Elliot couldn't reach it. It is the latest in a series of drawings by my Stella. It is a picture of the two of us, which seems to be her favorite subject these days. I am thankful for kids who love to create, and for the sweet pictures and notes and stories they leave for me to find.

biscuits and forever families

2011-11-12T06:00:00.000-07:00

Yesterday found us with too much buttermilk and not enough syrup. So pancakes were out the window for breakfast. Instead, I made a batch of my Grandma B's buttermilk biscuits. As I was mixing the butter into the dough with my fingers, I started to think about my grandma. Her bright red hair, and the way she wore pantyhose with her old green bathing suit, her strong arms and slender frame. Her happy smile and tender hugs. I am so thankful to have known her. I believe that families can be sealed together forever, and that I will see my Grandma B again someday, along with all of the others who came before me. I will see them and I will know them, and that makes me feel very grateful.

Grandma B's Buttermilk Biscuits

2 2/3 cup flour
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
4-5 tablespoons Crisco (this time I used butter instead)
1 cup buttermilk

Sift dry ingredients. Cut in Crisco. (You can use two knives, or a food processor, but I just use my fingers.) Stir in milk quickly with a fork. Knead for about 20 seconds, then roll out and cut. Bake at 450 degrees for 12 minutes.

I think baking biscuits is an art, one that I haven't quite mastered. But this much I know: don't overwork the dough, be quick when mixing and rolling or patting into shape. I use a drinking glass to cut out my biscuits because that's what my grandma did. And I like to serve them straight from the oven with a bowl full of molasses for dipping.

Here is a great biscuit tutorial.

sisters

2011-11-11T04:30:00.000-07:00

A few days ago, my sister-in-law, Lindsi, and I met at the park behind my house. We had a nice visit while our kids played in the warm autumn sun. Yesterday, I loaded Stella and Elliot up in the Grand Wagoneer to spend the morning at Ginger's house. While I was there, I chatted with Leslie on the phone for a minute. I am completely surrounded by wonderful women in my sisters, and I am so very thankful for each one of them! We all get along so well, and they are my closest friends.

early morning light

2011-11-10T06:30:00.000-07:00

The sun rises right outside my kitchen window. I love the way the light streams in. It immediately boosts my spirit and starts my day on a happy note, even when it is so intense that I have to close my eyes while I wash the breakfast dishes. I am so thankful for it!

sewing

2011-11-09T06:23:00.000-07:00

When I was about 10, my mother sent me to sewing classes at our local fabric store. I am so glad that she did! I love seeing the possibility in a bolt of pretty fabric. Or creating something special from nothing, or mending something that is broken. I am thankful to have a skill that I really enjoy doing, and a teeny little space to call my own.

practice practice practice

2011-11-08T10:01:00.000-07:00

I love our pretty old piano a lot. Last year it even made it onto my thankful list. This year, I am grateful that Mabel and Oliver are able to take piano lessons. Playing the piano is something I've never been able to do, so I am extra thankful that my kids are willing to give it a try.

old friends

2011-11-07T09:52:00.000-07:00

When I went away to college, I found some pretty great life-long friends. I am so thankful for them! We are spread across the western states now, but sometimes we are really lucky and we get to see each other in person. I love when that happens. I am grateful that Lindsey was at my house this weekend with her little family. We picked up right where we left off, just like I knew we would.

He even wore a tie.

2011-11-06T15:20:00.001-07:00

Today was Elliot's first time attending nursery at church. I am pretty sure he loved it. I am so thankful for people, like his sweet nursery leaders, who faithfully fulfill their callings. It takes so many people, freely giving their time, to make a ward run smoothly. I am thankful for my own calling (I get to teach the New Testament to a rambunctious group of 10 year olds), for the things those children teach me, and for the opportunity I have to focus on the simple truths of the gospel.

big hugs and happy kids

2011-11-05T03:38:00.000-07:00

Now that the weather is nice, Elliot and I sit outside and wait for Mabel and Oliver to get home from school. I think it might be his favorite moment of the day. As soon as he sees them near the tangerine tree, he starts running. It makes all of us so happy! I am thankful for children who love each other, and are kind to one another. I know they have their moments, but on the whole, they are a very pleasant bunch, and I am just so glad.

Because babies don't keep.

2011-11-04T01:27:00.000-07:00

I am a firm believer in rocking babies to sleep. I think it's good for the babies and good for the mamas, too. I am thankful for a baby who still requires lots of rocking, because he is most likely our last, and I'm not quite ready to give this habit up.

p.s. I can't read the verse at the end of this post by my sister without tearing up. It gets me every single time.

a quiet life

2011-11-03T04:51:00.000-07:00

This month of thanksgiving is all about finding gratitude in the everyday, small moments of my life. I like the challenge of snapping a picture sometime during my day that represents my feelings in that moment. It is so satisfying. Are you doing it, too?

After I sent my kids to school yesterday, and Elliot was taking his morning nap, I looked around my silent house and felt immensely grateful for this quiet little life of mine. I am living the life I always imagined for myself. I realize that this is a great blessing. I am thankful that Mike so willingly carries the burden of providing for our family, so that I can stay home full time. He works hard to create our life, and I am grateful for his sacrifice.

A special bonus gratitude for today: a happy marriage. I posted a little bit of our love story a few weeks ago. Beautiful Senja has posted more here.

home

2011-11-02T05:12:00.000-07:00

I knew this house was where we'd raise our children the moment I stepped in the front door. Our home is far from perfect, but it is just right for us. I am so thankful to have a bright and happy place to keep my family safe.

a month of Thanksgiving

2011-11-01T05:12:00.000-07:00

Last November, I posted something I was grateful for every day, all month long. I loved it so much, that I am doing it again this year. I hope you'll play along! Today I am thankful for this autumn season. I like the cooler weather, and feeling cozy and being a homebody, but mostly I like the focus on counting blessings and feeling thankful. It makes me a better person, I think.

caramel apples

2011-10-31T14:01:00.000-07:00

Ever since my neighbor brought over a few caramel apples last week, I've been craving more. I decided this morning that if I had all of the ingredients already in my pantry, then I could make my own. And I did! Hooray! I used this caramel recipe, but I halved it. Half of a batch would easily cover 8-10 small apples, I'd say. I used smashed pretzels, kosher salt, and chopped snickers from my kids' trick-or-treat loot for the toppings. I made sure to leave one or two plain for Mike because he's kind of boring like that. What do you like on your caramel apples?

p.s. This tutorial from the Pioneer Woman is kind of helpful, too.

a costume report

2011-10-31T03:28:00.000-07:00

Stella started the weekend in pink as "Barbie as a rock star fairy princess". On Saturday, she decided to be a "wedding girl" instead. And that is why I don't worry about finding her a costume. I know she will change her mind a million times. Luckily we have a well-stocked dress-up collection. What will she wear to her preschool Halloween party this morning? Probably something else. For a girl who has multiple wardrobe changes on an ordinary day, Halloween is lots of fun.

Elliot didn't dress up this year. I mean, I didn't dress Elliot up this year. He didn't seem to mind, he was just pleased to find a bounce house. He had a lucky few minutes in there all by himself.

Mabel was a bat. Not Bat Woman. Just a plain old bat, thank you very much.

Oliver wanted to be a blue wizard with a slouchy hat. His wish was my command.

We rounded out our weekend with lots of candy and some face painting.

It was fun, but is Halloween over yet?

through rise colored glasses

2011-10-27T09:23:00.000-07:00

So I think my addiction to instagram is well documented. But, oh dear, it might be getting worse. The newest version of the app has a filter called "rise". It is bright and soft and golden. It is exactly how I imagine my life to look. Try as I might, I just can't bring myself to use the other filters. I'm stuck. In a beautiful, dreamy, happy rut.

Life is just easier when it's nice outside.

2011-10-26T19:42:00.001-07:00

That's what I realized today. Because today we had completely perfect weather. Oh, it was heaven! It's just the little things, like loading the kids in the car. Or walking across a parking lot. Or playing at the park. It's easier when the sun isn't beating down on you, making you sweat right through your shirt. Hooray for fall! All of our windows are currently open and a seriously cool breeze is blowing through the house. I hope it's finally here to stay.

real quick

2011-10-24T20:24:00.000-07:00

As I am typing this, Stella is downstairs with my mom, chatting her ear off before bed. I don't think she has stopped talking since my parents came to town.

My dad had to head home this morning, but luckily my mom will still be here for a few more days. We are having fun. Lots of hugging and playing and eating are happening over here. I made these enchiladas for dinner tonight with this pork and this salad. Yum.

Hope your week is off to a good start!

my little swede

2011-10-21T06:25:00.000-07:00

The other day I put Elliot in his cozy Hanna Andersson pants, and with his bright blonde hair, I thought he looked a bit Swedish (minus that enviable Scandinavian height). He has a mouth full of teeth, and I am starting to realize that all of the words he is babbling are actually real words. I'm not ready for this boy to be so grown up! I'm just so glad that he's little, and still likes to rock and hug. Otherwise, I think I'd be kind of a mess about it.

Have any fun things planned this weekend? My parents are in town so my kids are hoping for lots of hugs and time with their cousins.

I am hoping for some nice fall weather. I don't think it's going to happen, though. Blast.

pumpkin round-up

2011-10-19T04:49:00.000-07:00

Here you go, nine of my favorite pumpkin recipes in one place:

1. melt in your mouth pumpkin cookies
2. pumpkin gingerbread bars
3. double chocolate pumpkin cake with pumpkin spice buttercream
4. pumpkin spice magic bars
5. my Aunt Lucille's pumpkin bread
6. pumpkin cream cheese muffins
7. pumpkin spice whoopies
8. pumpkin crumb cake
9. pumpkin cookies

Enjoy!

pumpkin + cream cheese

2011-10-18T04:49:00.000-07:00

What is it about pumpkin and cream cheese? Guy, they are so good together. Last night was our semi-annual block party. I brought pumpkin recipe no. six to share. Technically, these are muffins, but they are so sweet, they could definitely qualify as dessert. The streusel on top and the cream cheese surprise in the center make them a solid winner in my book.

date night and french toast

2011-10-17T04:51:00.000-07:00

Wowee, Mike and I are on a roll. We've gone on a date for the past two weekends straight. I'm so proud of us. Getting everything and everyone ready for bed and a babysitter before we leave can be stressful, but it is so worth it! Saturday night we went to dinner and the apple store. I love eating food that I did not prepare. Without kids. It was so nice and easy and relaxing.

On Sunday morning we found more eggs in the nesting boxes than we've seen all summer. That totally called for french toast. So we mixed the eggs with some milk and cinnamon and a day old loaf of bread, and we were in breakfast business. The kids were so stuffed that they didn't even beg for one of Elliot's snacks during church. I don't remember the last time that happened.

How was your weekend? I hope it was nice wherever you are. It's still too hot here. Blah.

p.s. Our favorite feature of the Grand Wagoneer is the cozy date night bench seating. It's one of the best things we've done for our marriage.

the smell of pumpkin bread first thing in the morning

2011-10-14T10:11:00.000-07:00

Today is a good day. We had pumpkin bread for breakfast and will spend the afternoon working on Halloween costumes. We might even go to the park once it cools off a bit. Pumpkin recipe no. five is an oldie, but a goodie. I'm pretty sure that I post my great Aunt Lucille's pumpkin bread recipe on this blog every year, but it really is the best. Plain and simple and just darn good. I don't think anything says fall better.

Have a good weekend!

the best part of yesterday

2011-10-13T07:02:00.000-07:00

Sometimes, when Elliot wakes up from his nap, he's not really ready to wake up. So we hug on my bed for a bit. I love when that happens.

pumpkin + magic

2011-10-12T12:40:00.000-07:00

On to pumpkin recipe no. four. I doubled this recipe and baked it in an 8 inch square pan instead of the mini cheesecake pan called for in the recipe. (I don't have a mini cheesecake pan, but now that I think about it, maybe a muffin pan would have worked?) Anyway, doubling it might have been a mistake. I baked it for 45 minutes, until it was golden brown on top, and it took forever to cool off and firm up. (I left it in the fridge overnight, which helped.) That is not to say that it wasn't good. Because it was. It was just kind of gooey. And also, whoa nellie, these were intense. So rich that just a bite is all you need (even though I ate quite a bit more than just a bite, darn it). My verdict: as good as they were, and as much as I liked them, I kept wishing that I was eating this instead.

our favorite fhe activity

2011-10-11T07:56:00.000-07:00

When I am an old lady, nights like this will be my favorite to remember, I think. I love our little family bike rides in the cool, fall evening light. Last night's ride ended with a trip to the park. It was just about perfect.

pumpkin + chocolate

2011-10-10T10:01:00.000-07:00

Pumpkin recipe no. three was good. Despite the nearly full can of pumpkin puree called for in the recipe, this chocolate cake has a very subtle pumpkin flavor, which makes it an easy crowd pleaser. After all, I know that not everyone is as obsessed with pumpkin desserts as I am. It is super moist and chocolatey and delicious. But my favorite part by far is the pumpkin spice butter cream frosting. I am trying to think of other things I can spread it on. Graham crackers? Brownies? My fingers? Yum!

This just in: this cake is even more delicious the next day.

this weekend

2011-10-09T16:26:00.000-07:00

We enjoyed sweater weather for about a second, just long enough to make me realize that we are completely unprepared for cooler temperatures. I don't think Elliot owns one pair of pants. But, it will be back up into the high 90s again this week, so I won't quite worry about it yet.

We took the sun screens off the Arizona room windows for the season! Yipee! Our house immediately became about a thousand times brighter inside. I know those darn screens keep our house cooler in the summer, but I just hate them. Taking them down each fall is my most favorite chore of the whole year.

Also, I thatched the yard and Mike planted our winter grass. And now I can't move my back. Ouch. I am so weak. Or maybe just old?

Anyway, we rewarded our hard work with a date night. Sushi and ice cream make such a great combo. Yum.

It was a solid gold weekend. How was yours?

I canned.

2011-10-06T11:29:00.000-07:00

So, my sister-in-law, Ginger, and I decided to do some canning a couple of weeks ago. It was my first time, and it was fun! We realized after the fact that it wasn't super cost effective, but I think my tomatoes look pretty all lined up in my pantry, so it was probably worth it. :)

I'm not sure if I'll ever do it again. But if I did, what should I try next?

pumpkin + gingerbread

2011-10-05T12:50:00.000-07:00

Pumpkin recipe no. two was a success. It was just what I was expecting. Sweet and creamy pumpkin center, with a crunchy streusel-like topping and rich gingerbread cookie crust. Luckily I halved the recipe. Otherwise, I think I'd be tempted to eat the whole pan.

winners and rain, glorious rain

2011-10-05T06:33:00.001-07:00

It rained last night! And not only did it rain, but the air was cool. Like I needed a sweater 70 degrees cool. I've never felt anything so wonderful. Just when I thought the heat was going to be the death of me. Oh, I love the end of summer.

And now, happy congratulations to

and

rachel, you are the new winner of the DownEast Girl giveaway! shauntel, you won something from DownEast Woman! Hooray for you both. Please send your order info to me at barefootstephanie@gmail.com asap, and I will forward it on to DownEast.

Giveaways are so fun. We should do it again sometime.

the most wonderful time of the year

2011-10-04T01:08:00.000-07:00

I've been pinning pumpkin recipes like a mad woman. So when I finally saw a small stack of canned pumpkin at my grocery store on Saturday, I went weak in the knees. This was the first recipe I tried. If you don't forget the salt like I did, these cookies are probably really great. As it was, mine were kind of a miss. But, I still think they looked pretty. And they were so light and fluffy, they really did melt in your mouth. Let me assure you, one missed ingredient is not enough to deter me. There are so many more pumpkin recipes to try! I promise to let you know how they turn out.

For now, I am looking forward to cooler temperatures and lots of cozy days spent baking in my kitchen.

p.s. Don't forget to enter the DownEast giveaway. Today is the last day!

weekend in review

2011-10-03T04:24:00.000-07:00

I am a Mormon, a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This weekend was our church's General Conference. So we moved the computer into our room and hunkered down for two days to listen and learn. I look forward to this weekend every October (and again in April). It means a change in season, waffles, lots of family time, and most importantly, hearing from our Prophet and other church leaders. This weekend definitely did not disappoint. I heard lots of things that I needed to hear, but these two talks stood out to me the most: Elder Ian S. Ardern on the wise use of time (oh man, I needed this one!) and Elder Tad R. Callister about the Book of Mormon.

What did you think of Elaine S. Dalton's talk for fathers? I sure loved it.

What did you do this weekend?

DownEast Women

2011-09-29T04:24:00.000-07:00

***Giveaway is now closed.***

Hi there. I'm back with another DownEast review. This time it's for the ladies.

What do you think of my skirt? I think it goes with just about everything and is perfect for fall. It looks and feels like wool, but it is really a washable cotton/poly blend. Some day I will own fancy dry-clean only wool skirts, but not while I have little kids living in my house. I like the interesting darts and the full lining and the fact that it is gray, which is so much easier for me to wear than black. My only complaint is that it was too long. Or maybe I am too short? Whatever the case, a few minutes at the sewing machine fixed it right up. And now I am tempted to wear it more often than I should.

I have good news! The nice people at DownEast think one lucky reader deserves a little something new, too. Hey, it could be you!

Here's what you need to do:
Browse DownEast. They have some great new things this season! Then come back to this post and leave a comment telling me your favorite item for fall. For an extra entry, you can like DownEast on Facebook. Just make sure you leave an additional comment telling me that you've done it. Do all of this before Tuesday, October 4th at 10 pm Mountain Standard time. I will announce the winner first thing Wednesday morning. Good luck!

p.s. Don't forget, today is the last day to enter the DownEast Girl giveaway. Have you entered? Winner will be announced tomorrow.

swiiings!

2011-09-28T05:20:00.000-07:00

Last night, Elliot rediscovered the swings after a terribly long summer spent indoors. I don't know if you can tell, but he loved it. :)

We're hopeful that the daytime highs will leave the hundreds for good soon. Please?

Now that they're older, I like them quite a lot.

2011-09-27T13:52:00.000-07:00

Let me tell you something. When I was little, my brothers used to drive me crazy. I realize now that's just what brothers do. If you have brothers, then you understand. But now I really like them!

Would you like to meet them?

Elliott, on the left, is the oldest. He is a businessman and father of 5. He is married to Ginger, who likes to reupholster furniture in her spare time. Much to my delight they just moved a few minutes down the road from us. Previously, they lived in Indiana, which is significantly farther away than a few minutes. We are so happy to have them in our town! (Side note: my baby shares his name, but not his spelling. My Elliot only has one t.)

Matthew, in the middle, is a graphic designer and father of 4. He is the only one of my siblings who still lives in southern California, where we grew up. He likes to surf, and I am just waiting until his surfboard shaping side job becomes his main gig. His wife, Katie, is the superwoman behind Singers Company.

After Matthew, comes Leslie, then me, then Lincoln, on the right. Lincoln is in his final year of dental school in Las Vegas, and is baby David's daddy. My kids call him "Guggle" and he is the nicest, most easy going guy you will ever meet. He is married to Mimi, who has enough energy in her little body to move mountains.

Julianne is the baby, and now that she is married, I think we are all officially grown up.

There, now I feel like we know each other a little bit better.

DownEast Girl

2011-09-26T11:55:00.001-07:00

***Giveaway is now closed.***

This time it was Stella's turn.

DownEast Girl sent Stella this cute ruffled cardigan to try out. Stella loves it because it is pink. I love it because it is just the right layering piece for an Arizona fall (meaning: it is just like wearing a long sleeved tee, and heaven knows we don't need much more than that around here for a while). Stella turns four soon, and this size 4 cardigan is quite roomy on her. Hopefully that just means it will fit her until spring, so she'll get plenty of wear out of it. I always buy my kids' clothes a tad big, don't you?

Listen, do you have a girl in your life who could use a little something new from DownEast this fall? Well, I have good news! DownEast is giving away an item from their Girls' line to a lucky reader!

To enter:
Browse DownEast Girl. Then come back to this post and leave a comment telling me your favorite girls' item for fall. For an extra entry, you can like DownEast on Facebook. Just make sure you leave an additional comment telling me that you've done it. Do all of this before Thursday, September 29th at 10 pm Mountain Standard time. I will announce the winner first thing Friday morning. Good luck!

p.s. Don't forget DownEast's Live for Pink campaign that is going on right now. Until October 16th, for every limited edition pink tee they sell, they will donate half of the proceeds to Breast Cancer Awareness. You can read more about it here. I think it is fantastic.

p.p.s. If you don't have a girl in your life, don't worry. A giveaway for you is coming soon!

Oliver

2011-09-26T04:48:00.000-07:00

If there could be a middle child in our family of 4, it would have to be Oliver. Mabel is the oldest, Stella is the most dramatic, and Elliot is the baby. That leaves this boy, quiet and easy, somewhere in the middle of it all. He turned 7 this month, and I can't stand that he is getting older. He is Mabel's best friend, Elliot's hero, and Stella's foe. And I'm not sure what we would do without him.

5 happy things

2011-09-23T11:18:00.002-07:00

this little face

an early morning run

the first day of fall

peach crisp fresh out of the oven

a trip to the airport to pick up Mike!

fourteen years and a few days ago

2011-09-21T20:58:00.000-07:00

Maybe I'm getting more sentimental as the years go by, or maybe it's because Mike is away on his once-a-year business trip and I miss him, but all day long I've been thinking about when we first met. It was fourteen years ago this month. In other words, we were babies.

Our meeting took place like this:

First: the grass outside of the old entrance to the library at BYU, Freshman Orientation Week. I see a boy in a blue Halley's Comet tee and a backpack. He is alone. I am with my brand new friends, standing on the steps that lead down to the grass. We are in a crowd, but amazingly, there is no one between us. I have a clear view of his bright blue eyes. We smile.

Second: passing through the Canon Center, Helaman Halls. I see that boy again. This time he is walking with a girl. I probably hate her. (I don't really.) Could he possibly live in my dorm? (He didn't.)

Third: Club Omni, Provo's hottest (and only) dance spot. It's ladies night. And there he is, dressed to the nines in disco attire. He is standing with a friend, watching some break dancers. I think that maybe if I go stand next to him, he'll notice me. (He doesn't.)

Fourth: the Fall Fling. I am dancing with my sister and some friends. The entire population of Provo surrounds us. I can't believe it, but there he is, dancing right next to me. I whisper to my sister that this is the boy I keep seeing everywhere. A slow song comes on. She makes me ask him to dance. (I do.)

I know this sounds lame, but I knew there was something special about him the first time I saw him. My first semester at BYU was spent strategically being in the right place so that I would "bump" into him between classes. And then he moved home. And went on a mission. And I dated some other guys. I will forever be grateful that he forgot that I had stopped writing him halfway through his mission and called me when he got home.

He is the best thing that ever happened to me.

Ok. Your turn. What's your story?

a weekend report

2011-09-19T06:10:00.000-07:00

I wasn't quite ready to say goodbye to my white dress for the season, so I gave it another go at church on Sunday. I think the "no white after Labor Day" rule shouldn't apply in states where it lingers near 100 degrees until Halloween. Am I right, or am I right?

This weekend was great fun. My sisters-in-law and I hosted a baby shower for Mike's youngest sister and I didn't take one picture of it. But trust me, it was really nice, and the food was plentiful and delicious. (Thank you, Abbie, for doing most of the work!) Baby Hazel can be born any day now, please. We are anxious to meet her.

Then Mike and I went to a little neighborhood get-together to celebrate the end of a very long, hot summer. (The end of summer is definitely a cause for celebration around here.) I love our neighbors. They are the best kind of people, and it was so fun to talk and laugh with them until nearly nine o'clock at night.

We are old. :)

What did you do this weekend?

I'd like to eat him.

2011-09-16T19:49:00.000-07:00

The light was just right tonight. And it wasn't hot. So we all make the trek across the street to pick Mabel up from her friend's house.

This little guy was just happy to be alive and outside and wearing shoes.

We survived another summer.

2011-09-14T06:18:00.000-07:00

Monday night we went for a family walk and we didn't even get sweaty. It's not supposed to reach 100 degrees all week. The night time lows have dipped into the 70s. I'm making pumpkin chocolate chip cookies today. And when I walked out of my door at five o'clock this morning, it felt slightly crisp.

What I'm trying to say, is that I am pretty sure fall is here in the desert and I am just so glad.

Tea Collection

2011-09-13T04:26:00.000-07:00

I first heard of the children's clothing company Tea Collection years ago when Stella was a baby. My mom picked up a few outfits for her and I was very impressed with their quality and unique style. When Tea contacted me a few weeks ago to see if I would be interested in reviewing some clothing for my children, I immediately said yes.

Mabel was the lucky one.

the Flores de Calabaza top

the Polanco Chambray dress

Their current collection was inspired by modern Mexico. I am in love with a lot of it, and had a hard time choosing what to order. We ended up with the Flores de Calabaza top and the Polanco Chambray dress. Mabel loves them both. She says that the top is very comfortable, and keeps her cool on these hot school days. The dress is my favorite. I even looked at their sizing guide to see if I could possibly squeeze myself into the largest size. (I couldn't. Boo.) It would be great with a pair of leggings or some tights. The quality is top notch, and the style is classic. I have a hunch that once Mabel outgrows them, these will make the cut and be saved for Stella.

Other than a little mix up with my order, I was very pleased with my entire Tea Collection experience. The items arrived quickly and were just what I was expecting.

p.s. They sell boy's clothes, too.

some things, including rolls

2011-09-12T09:44:00.000-07:00

It seems like every Sunday I find myself making a batch of rolls for dinner at Mike's parents' house. I don't mind one bit because I don't think there is anything more delicious than a homemade roll straight from the oven. I thought I'd share the recipe below in case you'd like to try them, too.

Leslie is finally home from England (she stayed for almost a week longer than I did) and has started posting about her trip on her family blog. If you'd like to see more photos from Julianne's wedding, or more England scenery, check it out.

Are you on instagram? It is just about my favorite thing these days. I even like it better than blogging! Shocking! My handle is barefootstephco. Let's be friends.

Soft Whole Wheat Dinner Rolls, from The Bread Lover's Bread Machine Cookbook

2/3 cup milk
1/2 cup sour cream
1/4 cup honey
2 large eggs
4 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces

3 cups all-purpose flour
1 cup whole wheat flour (I use white whole wheat)
1/2 cup toasted wheat germ
1 1/2 teaspoons salt

2 teaspoons SAF yeast, or 2 1/2 teaspoons bread machine yeast

1. Place all the ingredients in the pan according to the order in the manufacturer's instructions. Program for the Dough cycle; press start.

2. Grease a 9x13 inch pan. When the cycle is finished, remove dough from the machine. Turn it out onto a lightly floured surface. Divide dough in half, then roll each half into a 2 to 3 inch cylinder. With a metal dough scraper or a chef's knife, cut the cylinder into 8 equal portions. (8 equal portions makes a very generous sized roll. Sometimes I divide each cylinder into 12 portions instead.) Repeat with the second cylinder. Shape each portion like a miniature load by patting it into an oval, then rolling up from a short side. Place the rolls in the pan with their long sides touching. Brush with melted butter (about 2 or 3 tablespoons), cover loosely, and let rise until doubled, about 45 minutes.

3. Preheat the oven to 375 degrees.

4. Place pan in the center of the oven and bake for 20-25 minutes, until golden brown. (Mine are usually done after about 18-20 minutes.) Remove from the pan and let cool on a rack. Serve warm.

scenes from my kitchen

2011-09-08T13:21:00.000-07:00

Even though it's still 108 degrees outside, fall must be in the air, because I started cleaning my kitchen today and I couldn't stop. I needed my counter tops cleared and my walls bare. I needed everything off my fridge and my pantry organized. I even washed the curtains. For some reason fall cleaning always hits a bit harder at our house than the spring version.

Watch out closets, I'm on a roll.

the time when I pretended to be a wedding photographer

2011-09-07T10:23:00.000-07:00

The ceremony was inside this beautiful chapel, which is part of Toni's college at Oxford.

Toni chose the flowers, and I made the ring pillow.

During the ceremony, Julianne read a poem and Toni read a scripture. She found her 100 year old dress online and it fit her perfectly. Isn't it stunning?

At the last moment, she realized that she didn't have any stockings to wear. So I lent her mine. She then had something old (her dress), something new (her shoes), something borrowed (my stockings), and something blue (the pretty velvet ribbon on her dress). Leslie, my mom, and I helped her get ready in my parents' little hotel room just down the street from the chapel.

Mr. and Mrs. Weis with my mom and dad.

some post-ceremony candids

Miles was the ring bearer in his handsome suit. The entire H* family made the trip.

The reception was held in the rector's garden. A traditional British tea was served. It was so pretty and very delicious. Scones! Clotted cream! I didn't eat nearly enough.

These two are very much in love.

My siblings were all able to come, thanks to our wonderfully supportive spouses. That's Elliott, Lincoln, Toni, Jooj, Leslie, me, and Matthew. Toni is a special guy and he fits right into our family. I am so happy to have him as my brother.

When not doing wedding things, we toured the grounds at Blenheim Palace, wandered around the little town of Woodstock, and walked all over Oxford. England is one of my favorite places to visit, and this trip was a dream. Next time, though, I'm bringing Mike and the kids.

my sister's wedding, instagram style

2011-09-06T13:48:00.000-07:00

My beautiful little sister married her love last March at City Hall in New York City. This weekend, family and friends gathered in Oxford, England, where Julianne and Toni met, and where they will live for the next three years as they complete their doctorate programs, to celebrate their marriage.

It was fantastic.

the bride :: our weekend accommodations

Christ Church Meadow :: the happy couple

exchanging rings in the chapel at Exeter College :: Julianne's 100 year old dress

my brothers + nephew walking the streets of Woodstock :: a teeny little house I'd love to call my own

the bridge at Blenheim Palace with a classic British sky :: just another view in old Oxford

"New" college at Oxford :: a pretty wall

the Bodleian :: Christ Church Cathedral

more of Oxford :: the old library, scene of the Wedding Dinner

one of the colleges :: pretty skies on my long flight home

I left Mike and the kids at home, which made the trip easy. But traveling alone is highly overrated. I missed my little family!

Leslie and I were the unofficial wedding photographers. Stay tuned for photos from my real camera soon.

day twenty: Sunday shoes

2011-09-03T05:45:00.000-07:00

This one is a piece of cake, as I am attending my sister's wedding today. Sunday shoes are a must. I hope it doesn't rain! I'm pretty pleased with how my dress turned out. I think it's just right for a wedding in an old English chapel followed by tea in the garden, don't you think? After the past twenty days, you can't possibly be surprised that I chose pale pink.

I'm skipping out on the final day of the challenge, but I'll be back soon with a full report of my trip.

p.s. I used Simplicity 2180, if you feel inclined to make one for yourself. I'd highly recommend it.

on my way

2011-09-01T10:20:00.000-07:00

I'm headed to this pretty place today. Hooray! I'm planning on taking lots of pictures and buying my kids really great souvenirs.

I have one last outfit to post while I'm away. Stay tuned. . .

day seventeen: repaired

2011-08-31T08:22:00.001-07:00

I don't get out much, I guess. Because all of my best clothes seem to come from my older sister. That includes this blouse, which happens to be one of my favorite things in my closet. She sent it to me at the beginning of the summer and it fit great. Then I stopped nursing my baby, and magically overnight it became quite a bit roomier in the front than it was before. I hate when that happens. So I haven't worn it since. Well, that is just plain ridiculous. It took all of about five minutes to take in the sides and now all feels right again.

I have a busy day ahead. Lots of laundry and packing and emotional preparation as I get ready to leave the country and my family for five days. But, I just heard from my parents who arrived in England yesterday, and they reported 60 degrees and rain. Heaven!

Ok, must get going. . .

day sixteen: menswear

2011-08-30T10:55:00.000-07:00

I feel like this dress is the equivalent of a men's blue oxford. Does that make it menswear-inspired? I don't know, but it sure is comfortable. It's perfect for a trip to the pediatrician, the grocery store, and piano lessons on a too hot summer day.

beauty-full

2011-08-30T10:47:00.001-07:00

Thanks to the lovely Mrs. Bagley, I am feeling awefully beauty-full over at Cardigan Empire today. Her intro had me blushing in a major way. Thank you, sweet friend!

What makes you feel beautiful? Find my answer here.